The final book that I was sent to review was a surprise to me: it was a book for fathers and daughters! Not only was I excited to see that, but my husband was also! The book, The Three Weavers, Plus Companion Guide, is geared for fathers and daughters (ages 12-18 years old) to read and discuss together, just like the mom-daughter books from Pumpkin Seed Press. This book, however, has one theme and focus: A Father's Guide to Protecting His Daughter's Purity (summary from book cover).
Most fathers feel like they have been called to a task that is both scary and unknown: how to raise a lovely, pure, and healthy Christian young lady. Some fathers probably feel like they have no idea where to start to know how to talk to and encourage their daughters in this area; many if not most are comfortable leaving this area to the moms to handle. The fact remains, however, that our daughters crave and need a father's attention, input, and guidance in this area more than that we can imagine. Mothers can teach, mold, and model the way to be a woman after God's own heart, but it is the fathers who can truly protect and shield that young woman as she grows and matures into God's lady.
Being able to read and talk about the concepts and truths in this book can help a father know where to begin in influencing and molding his daughter's heart in this area, and, as a result, give her what she needs from him: sensitive instruction and his attention. This study is set to be a total of 7 weeks and the book is structured to be very easy to start and follow from start to finish. I was excited to see a weekly checklist for fathers to use to prepare for the weekly study, along with each Chapter reading, discussion questions, activities, and a section for the father to study each week all included right there in the book. Everything is ready to go; no preparation is needed!
In doing this study, fathers are encouraged to invest the time each week to build relationship with his daughter and be intentional in his actions and words that he speaks towards her. I was most encouraged to see that this study builds towards a commitment on the part of the parents and daughter towards protecting and saving her purity in mind and body for the man God will choose for her someday in marriage, culminating in a purity ceremony and token of beauty given to the young lady. Can you only imagine how many more young women would understand and value their purity if their parents took the time and energy to share how much it means to them?
Rather than hoping and praying that our daughters will learn of God, develop His character, and walk in His ways, we can gain resources like these and take time to spend with them, working through these concepts together, and praying for God's wisdom as parent and child, to seek to live in way that pleases Him. I believe that these books and resources from Pumpkin Seed Press will prove to be a blessing to you as a mom (or dad) seeking to impart and teach the ways of God in the lives of your daughters. Start today - and may you see your relationships grow and deepen with each other and with our God!
May He Be praised!
(This book was sent to me by Pumpkin Seed Press
in exchange for my honest review.)